Originally Posted by Anneintherain
. I thought we would both benefit equally (in different ways), but there was nothing I could say to convince him of that until he was open to experiencing it as such.
In what ways.? Doesn't it get very subjective if it's different ways/things being wieghed against another persons list. Was your husband planning to remain mono.....was that factored into your benefit analysis? Like the case here.
Glad your feeling better