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Old 07-07-2012, 01:52 AM
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Originally Posted by AutumnalTone View Post
Just recently got fluid bonded with new amorata by circumstance--we had technical failure with a condom and ended up swapping fluids. The twist to that is that now I use condoms with my wife, until we get the next round of testing and make certain everything is OK.

That's a weird feeling for me--now able to go bare with the gf and not with the wife. Ah, the joys of responsible behavior!
So, because of the one condom failure, you are not using any with the new gf? If it were me, I'd still keep using them. Or are you reasoning that you can't shut the barn door after the horse is out?
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