I guess I would suggest at the very least that you recommend any potential secondary do the same, bring their own list of what they are and are not comfortable with. It's good to know these things, but it shouldn't be "us against him/her". For that reason, I agree with Ciel that writing separate documents might be helpful. After all, you might not have the same boundaries as to what your metamours can do with one of you than the other, for instance.
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