Welcome to the forum. The search for people that enrich our lives can be a long and painful one. This is made even more difficult by the fact that there are a very large number of folks out there looking for the same thing you are, and relatively few females who are looking for that sort of relationship. For this reason that type of female is often known as a "Unicorn" and you guys would be the infamous "Unicorn Hunters"
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I'm going to do my very best to not take your celestial analogy too far, because it may take me down some not positive paths (something about orbits and hierarchies), so the one bit of advice I will give you is to maybe post an entry in the section of this forum for personals - it's called 'Dating and Friendships'.
I wish you luck on your search.