Oh, also, a couple more things about us (since a couple people have asked):
We are married, and have been for 11 years. We dated for 4 years before that. We are very comfortable with each other, and in our relationship. We also have 3 kids, and have no intention of having more. We also have a dog.
We are just looking for that wonderful fun dating relationship to begin with, that hopefully runs deeper over time. (like all good dating relationships)