Originally Posted by polypenguin
first, consider how you would feel if he were to be with you and texting to her all the time..
I have considered this. Many times. If he has been texting her while he has been around me I can't say I have noticed, but I'm pretty sure he has. He also made arrangements to have him and her picked up by a friend for a date while he was out with me; and at that time I made it clear to him that I felt that it was rude of him to have done that. He has explained that he didn't think it was rude, more like him having issues juggling his time between his two women.
I have told him how I felt, but I think I just frustrate him. And once I start feeling as if I am a cause of 'drama', I am scared I will start to detach.