You must be the gf mentioned in amberleaf's thread here:
Am I right? Lots of good advice on both threads, and I am glad Laura is reading along!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37