Originally Posted by GalaGirl
We've been together almost 20 yrs and we always are finding something new. It's part of the pleasure - stumbling across a new thing like a surprise.
we do, too.
I think this was different because he feels left out.
I have to add one thing though.
A couple of weeks ago I told my husband that at 1 point, my lover had tied me to the bed and blindfolded me. (this was completely new and not something husband and I have ever done).
My husband was somewhat intrigued, interested, and not upset at all.
Had he responded differently, I would not have let things go so far this past weekend. He says his own reaction surprised him, too.