Just wanted to add my own welcome to the forum.
Check out our "Dating & Friendships" board if you haven't done so already (you can use the "Forum Jump" menu, bottom of this page, right hand side, to get there). It might help you in your search.
Maybe unicorns are less rare than they seem; it partly depends what you're looking for and if you can be flexible.
The right person for you is out there somewhere. Be patient and hopeful! Glad to have you aboard.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"