Welcome to this community! I couldn't help but think of the Aladdin song when I saw the title of your post, lol.
You will find some amazing support here. I'm rather new myself and I've been so grateful for all the input I've received so far. I look forward to seeing you around the forum, and I hope your venture into poly will be a positive journey to happier living. ^_^
Me: K, female, 27. Married to Y for over 4 yrs (male, monogamous, 33). Opened relationship to E (male, monogamous, 27) in a relationship vee.