View Single Post
  #2  
Old 07-04-2012, 05:29 AM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 5,165
Default

First, take a deep breath.

You are 19. You don't have to know everything at once!

Second, do nothing but read for a bit.

http://www.morethantwo.com/

http://www.serolynne.com/polyamory.htm

Then have lots of talks with your fiancee about what your mutual goals are.

I don't mean just the poly ones -- but school, work, where to live, etc. How these things figure into your lives.

The ability to love more than one is polyamory.

That 4 person thing -- you sound like you are talking about a quad configuration of some kind.

GG
Reply With Quote