Originally Posted by Sabishiigarya
I was starting to feel like my own feelings of monogamy were invalid, hateful, and childish. And yet I couldn't stop feeling that way.
Just the idea of someone feeling like this makes me rather upset. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a monogamous nature! I hope these thoughts were not generated by anyone other than you. The idea of someone being convinced of this would be inexcusably cruel and self serving in my opinion. These suggestions would certainly not be from a place of love.
Take care, I hope you find happiness and a sense of being true to yourself.