Originally Posted by ThatGirlInGray
I'm glad you think he's being supportive otherwise and I'm sorry about the other guy. Between the trust and communication issues I'd recommend you guys talk to a marriage counselor and get your own relationship solid before you try to make a mono/poly relationship work.
We have already been to counseling.... it didn't do much for us, we tried it with more than one therapist too.
These last few weeks we have opened up more than ever and I have felt closer to him than ever... I've decided to just pull the reins back on the mono/poly and slowly dip our toes in the water as time goes on. We are just going to take this day by day as they come our way