Originally Posted by dingedheart
What about the old saying you can learn a lot about somebody by the people they choose to associate with.
Heh-heh, well, yes, that is something to go by when there are glaring differences BUT that idea won't always hold water because judgments are by nature subjective.
I really don't think transparency and honesty in poly HAS TO include meeting and developing metamour relationships. It's nice when it happens, but not necessary.