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Old 07-03-2012, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted by dingedheart View Post
What about the old saying you can learn a lot about somebody by the people they choose to associate with.
Heh-heh, well, yes, that is something to go by when there are glaring differences BUT that idea won't always hold water because judgments are by nature subjective.

I really don't think transparency and honesty in poly HAS TO include meeting and developing metamour relationships. It's nice when it happens, but not necessary.
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