You said your husband doesn't see as great a benefit to him.....you said you disagree with that..... My point was it subjective to him. If he dreads communicating .....if he really doesnt like being in a state of constant competition. Then those things really can't count for him.
Do you share a car with your neighbor? Why or why not. What's the benefit to not.
Flip this around and pretend they both had other partners ....what benefit would you get in that?
Last edited by dingedheart; 07-03-2012 at 11:47 AM.