Welcome to our forum.
It's easy to feel alone and "lost at sea" sometimes, so to speak, when you're poly. So many people don't know about it or if they do know, don't understand or accept it. Polyamory.com is a great place for you because you'll find a lot of like-minded people here, from all over.
I can relate to your ideal of sharing everything (living together) in a poly dynamic. I hope you'll find just the right person for your situation.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"