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Old 06-29-2012, 02:35 AM
Mudita Mudita is offline
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Originally Posted by MeeraReed View Post
Jeni was crushed. And who wouldn't be, in her situation?
Yes this would be a very difficult thing to deal with.
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You didn't do anything wrong, but I don't think Jeni did either.
I realise it's easy for me to talk about this in "theory" as I'm not emotionally involved in the situation but I guess part of my idea of the poly I'd like to practise would be being open to my partner meeting someone else and loving them more than me and even leaving me for them. Otherwise the alternative is placing restrictions on them, which is precisely what I find distasteful about monogamy.
I want the best for those that I love, even if it comes at my expense.
Which like I said, is easy in theory...
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