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Old 06-29-2012, 01:13 AM
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Originally Posted by ThatGirlInGray View Post
What I tend to consider "good" porn is halfway decent production, safe and responsible responsible companies (I LIKE to see condoms used) and I generally like parodies that are poking fun of themselves as much as the original.
The use of condoms is something I've definitely thought about. Coming from my perspective; whenever I've used condoms with a partner, I've never been able to get off. Why this was so, I don't know. What I do know is that, perhaps in part because of this, I really like seeing the -non- use of condoms. I'm all for them doing STD tests and all that and it's not a killer if they use a condom, but I much prefer the non use.

Originally Posted by ThatGirlInGray View Post
I don't like porn that has really crappy production, takes itself too seriously, or portrays humiliating, violent, or other demeaning scenarios.
Agreed. Where I have a little bit of a moral dilemna is that sometimes I really like a bit of reluctance. And it's not just the female that I enjoy seeing a bit of reluctance in at times. Again, I imagine that it's something internal; as in, I myself get nervous in this type of thing, and so, for me atleast, there can definitely be something erotic in reluctantism (probably not a word, but what the hell :-p).

Originally Posted by ThatGirlInGray View Post
I want the porn I watch to portray consensual fun, since that's what I practice and what I get off on.
I agree; reluctance is ok, but the consent has to be there (albeit reluctantly given at times). What really does it for me is if, -after- the reluctance, they really get into it.

Originally Posted by ThatGirlInGray View Post
ETA: A sense of humor, whether in porn or during sex, is a MUST. Porn is funny. Sex is funny. If you can't laugh at/during sex imo you're probably taking things WAY too seriously and not actually having fun, which is generally (as I see it) the point.
I agree :-). I also kind of see it as sacred. I've noticed in the meetup forums that "sacred sexuality" is a big key term, so I guess I'm not alone in this idea. That's not to say it can't be funny (and it can definitely be great to be funny sometimes; admittedly, I don't have any personal examples, but oh the videos you can see online sometimes :-p), but if I get to choose the way I die, I'd probably want sexuality to be involved somehow.. it is, to me, the absolute best part of living and while I may not be able to take it with me, I'd atleast like to be with it to the very end.
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