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Old 06-28-2012, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Maebe View Post
Kind of like blowing off steam to your best friend, only my best friend in RL is my hubby's sister and they have a tense relationship as it is, so going there isn't a good option.
Time to put some effort into finding some friends outside of your relationship with your husband. I completely understand this and spent 19 years in that place. It's extremely draining and has a more detrimental effect than we realize. It took me over a year to get involved in some activities that I enjoyed and were completely separate from my husband. Not that he can't join in if he wanted to, but it's just not something he's all that into and he has his own stuff. Through these activities, I gained some awesome friends, that are MY friends and I don't have to worry how my venting my effect their view of my husband.
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