Originally Posted by nycindie
...the problems I see inestablishing trust in a LDR. How do we do it?
Well, I'd chat online a lot. I don't think you like to do that, tho. How about Skype? (but again, with your current financial situation, I don't think you even have internet at home... ) And then meeting him irl and spending time together, getting a feel for his interests, communication skills and the like.
Eventually, with lots of communication, you will get a sense of the real him.
You and he don't need to be Romeo and Juliet to have a certain kind of fulfillment. If he only comes to town 2-4 times a year, it could remain a nice casual FWB kind of thing.
And of course, a voluptuous experienced pretty lady of a certain age is wicked attractive to many men. I keep telling you that, you keep not believing it!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, poly, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, poly, 37
Last edited by nycindie; 05-01-2014 at 04:41 AM.