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Old 06-28-2012, 09:07 AM
Tonberry Tonberry is offline
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To answer your question about mentioning it or keeping it secret, I think if it really feels to you like she is responding, you should have it in the open. Even if in the end you decide not to act on it because you're worried it would affect your friendship, if you don't say anything it could look to him like you're being sneaky about it, and that would be bad. Even if you do tell them, if you wait a while he might feel like you should have come forward sooner and not let things develop that much, so I would definitely think that putting it in the open soon would be best.
I do tend to like being open about things and hate hiding anything, even when I fully understand the reasons, so I'm probably biased.
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