Also, the fact that it freaked him out and he disappeared, says to me that you absolutely did the right thing. Who knows why, but if he wasn't able to meet you, then that doesn't bode well for a poly-ship (of any kind). right?
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)