Not going to get too detailed, as it's not actually my story to tell, but: the plan for TGIB to move out here this summer is not going to happen. His ex has been diagnosed with a potentially life-threatening illness and he's going to stay in Texas for the foreseeable future to be there for his kids as they all try to get through this time.
I totally understand his decision to not put his kids through dealing with their mom's illness AND him moving at the same time. He wouldn't be the person I love if he had made any other choice. But GOD it sucks. I'm really, REALLY pissed at the universe right now.
Pan Female, Hinge in a V between my mono (straight) husband, Monochrome and my poly (pan) partner, ThatGuyInBlack