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Old 06-27-2012, 07:22 PM
Tonberry Tonberry is offline
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I think it's a bad idea. Your relationship is going to be in more jeopardy than ever... opening up is stressful and takes time and energy to adapt, it's best to be in the best of shapes beforehand. It's a bit like having a kid... you don't want to do it to strengthen a couple that is about to break up, you want to be good together already.

If there is no turning back, then I would suggest you find a hobby you can share with friends while she's with her boyfriend, or something along these lines, so you feel less alone, and more like she's doing something on her own while you're also doing something on your own.
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