Originally Posted by WhatHappened
I'm sure I can pull out many more!
Is it possible your hurt is also or more about rejection by this other man? Or perhaps wondering if this was a little bit under false pretenses from the start--that maybe he was more interested in another man than in a woman, but didn't come right out and say so?
Yes, it is possible, and I didn't think of that. But I do feel it was started under false pretenses, and I don't like people who lie to me, or mislead me in a way that makes me feel as I do now.
If he'd told me that's what he wanted, I don't know what to think about that. I have no issues with sexuality, I'm fairly open and curious myself, so I've never said no to anything like that. I just wish I had known if that was the intention all along.