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Old 06-27-2012, 04:23 PM
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This is a very sad situation that you have been put into - it's going to be a lot of work to get through any of this...

One question - how did it get from:
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She's part of a poly couple and she'd like to get to know her better. Her husband is interested in me.
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I am stuck in a poly relationship with CH and the couple together, effectively leaving me out of the loop.
In other words, what was the process of "we're all interested in this" to "stuck in a relationship" - were you given any say in this? He had already had one sign that you were not happy with the idea of poly - once he found the couple, how much discussion was had about whether or not to start this, and to really become inside a poly relationship?
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