Originally Posted by Emm
He cheated on his wife with you. That's not a good foundation for polyamory.
You broke up with him three years ago. If you still can't bring yourself to move on I suggest you seek professional assistance.
Techinically she's his fiancee not his wife, and believe me I've tried. I really think he's my true love, I really want to be with him.
And I'm sure if we all just put our cards on the table, reveal our innermost emotions and have extremely open and honest communication, we can get past the sad past and develop into a healthy triad.