Sometimes we just have a dramatic reaction to changes that for whatever reason seem really big to us, like jumping off a cliff. It's scary to find ourselves out of the old familiar comfort zone. But change can be good, and change really is the only absolute in life - everything changes eventually,so why not embrace it?
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein