Originally Posted by lovefromgirl
I sometimes wonder how other poly people feel about someone who is vanilla and still poly. I can't meet kinky needs, either. Your crush certainly reinforces the whole "poly must be kinky too" paradigm. What if I'm just wired to want multiple people in my life, no whips or chains attached? /perturbed
*putting hands up* Here, pick me, pick me! Totally vanilla and never interested in any kink as far as I know it, aside from the 'normal' stuff. Does this really seclude itself this much? I never noted such a strong connection between those areas.
Facts: 30, female, bi, v-type relationship with Sward (husband, straight, mono) and Lin (boyfriend, straight, mono), poly-fi and co-primary.