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Old 06-25-2012, 05:09 PM
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When ALL the finances are put on my shoulders and my husband has NO input, I feel overwhelmed and over burdened. It's a lot less stressful when both of us can sit down together and discuss everything, even when I'm still the one doing the math, paying the bills and such. In fact it's quite irritating, frustrating and exhausting to be the only one who gives a shit about the finances, especially when the electricity bill doubles over the summer, the car breaks down, etc. Alec is probably happy to leave that burden for you, as long as you will bear it, but talk about it with him, maybe set once a month or even once a quarter for you guys to review and discuss the finances.
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