Thanks all for the replies - what a welcoming community
@ImmaginaryIllusion - do you by chance have the name/link for that group? Or know how to join it? I can't seem to find it using the search, though maybe that's the point - hah!
@CielDuMatin - thanks for the welcome and the advice. We have found those groups but they don't appear to be all that active. Admittedly I'm not helping that situation by not posting myself! Def agree on face-to-face connection, chemistry is so important for us. Have you had success at all meeting people in non-poly group situations, or is it typically through your local poly network?
@kdt26417 - thanks! Def will be around her more and look forward to contributing. So nice to feel welcomed here.
@BirthofVenus - thank you for the advice. I hope you can find a resolution to your situation.