Originally Posted by Nathan
It does turn me on to think of them spending their nights together doing nothing but having sex. I'm not sure why this effects me the way it does, I am not that comfortable with these feelings, most men would not feel this way, and yet I cant deny that they are there, because they are.
I actually don't think that's the case. I think there are more men who are voyeurs but since there seems to be negative thoughts associated with that form of arousal, they may not be as comfortable expressing how they feel. It's probably why I myself was taken aback when my SO informed me he'd enjoy seeing me with another man, because it's uncommon to hear in passing or personally from the average guy.