How would I even know they are poly? Not all of them are OUT to people.
I probably bump into polys undercover all the time but don't know it.
For all I know my cashier at the grocery is poly. I don't care because... she checks my groceries out and I go home?
I don't attend meetings or anything -- I'm not looking to date or seeking or anything. I enjoy online forums just cause I like to talk!
So unless we've been friends for years and I already just know because we've been friends for years?
I just wouldn't know what percentage to put.