Congratulations on taking the plunge. Sorry it kinda hurt.
May I recommend the blog (on this site) of Jane Q Smythe? She is also an introvert. She started her blog at the beginning of her story, in childhood. It's most excellent reading, she's brilliant. And introverted. It's possible it could add to understanding.
And you may have to wait a while before offering it. But you could read it.
Know that we're all here, cheering you, and your lovely wife, on through the chop.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)