Yeah, you are right. Seems to be a typical case of me worrying too much. There is something that I can't put my finger on specifically but something is bugging me.
I think this doesn't sit so well with me because I hate forcing other people. It's the least I would want to do and I am actually doing so by 'making' them metamours. *sigh* Yes, they consented to this, they want this to work and want to work on possible problems as soon as they arise. They don't seem to feel uncomfortable at all right now, I don't really know why this is rubbing me the wrong way.
I will do some more thinking, I guess
Facts: 30, female, bi, v-type relationship with Sward (husband, straight, mono) and Lin (boyfriend, straight, mono), poly-fi and co-primary.