OKC is Oklahoma City.
No we could not relocate. he has too much seniority on his job, and all our family is here. We would not ask a stranger to relocate, and it is doubtful we would get that close in a long distance relationship, so hoping for something local.
Yes it is our real names. I see no reason to hide those. For one, they are common names. For two, I introduce myself to strangers in real life with my name, so why not give the people here the same common curtesy?