Originally Posted by polyq4
i am also not a lady however, i have many a time watched our BF make love to my wife, watching her cum watching her writhe in enjoyment, how beautiful that is. i have also seen her do this with me so its a beautiful thing, those who dont enjoy this are letting jealousy get in there way. (IMHO)
I'm an exhibitionist, but not so much a voyeur. I love being in public and having orgasms so loud that the whole room is compelled to turn and watch. But when other people take over the stage, I go "meh" and go sit in the chill-out room and chat with my friends.
I completely disagree that not enjoying watching my husband have sex or play with other people means I'm letting jealousy get in the way.
That's like saying people who don't enjoy gay sex are letting homophobia get in the way. Or maybe it's possible they just care for gay sex...