Yes corey, but the problem is that these type of articles, essentially, tell you be be a asshole and they'll come running. It's male fantasy fodder, and it plain doesn't work. There is a vast gulf between being a doormat and being a "bad boy". It's quite possible to be a good, solid, reliable person, and STILL be attractive to others.
But if you would prefer to use AskMen as your source of information about good relationships, rather than some of the things that we have suggested, please feel free!
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