A little advice
I am new to poly. I have been reading these forums for a few days now trying to figure out what this is all about. The reason, awhile ago I met this wonderful woman though this organization we both are involved in. We began hanging out as friends and chatting often I knew she had a boyfriend so to me it was going to be nothing more than a friendship thing and I was ok with that. I am not the type to cause that kind of trouble. And to tell you the truth I was not looking for anything or any kind or relationship. I have been single for 6 years after a rough divorce and was just fine with it and didnít care if it stayed that way.
Well after awhile she told me she had feeling for me and at that point I knew I had strong feeling for her. She told me she was in a Poly relationship and started telling me about this. Which it kind of scared me to be honest with you, but she answered every question I have come to her with.
So after that little bit of history.
I can say when I talk to her it makes me happy the happiest I been in a very long time. Just the thought of her makes me smile. But this whole concept kind of scares me I guess because I fully donít understand it. And I am so afraid of being hurt again and this Poly just seems like a bigger chance than mono.
I am trying to understand this as much as possible. Because I am so confused about what to do. And would like to make an educated decision.
I guess I am asking for is advice or maybe if some one has had similar experiences and would be willing to share those, Or any useful information.