I ended up cancelling my date with Marty, so that Derrick and I could talk. I think we are on the right track, it is just going to take a long time for the trust to be rebuilt. But at least we are communicating about it and trying to move forward. We set another talking date for Friday, because there was one area we didn't really cover last night, and it got so late that we decided sleep was important.
"This, too, is sacred."
I am my own primary.