Hello, and welcome to the forum!
We have a special section for those "looking" - it's called "Dating & Friendships", and there is a section for North America. Those areas tend to be looked at by those that are looking for relationships, so you might get more luck there.
Good luck on your search!
Please check out The Birdcage - an open, friendly Polyamory forum for all parts of New York State
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