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Old 06-21-2012, 04:54 AM
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Originally Posted by CielDuMatin View Post
Why is this a question only for the ladies?
Totally my question too. And given that I am a lady, I'll answer.

"Why do I enjoy watching my wife have sex with another man?"

I can't even imagine why you enjoy that.
I think my boyfriend might enjoy it because he likes to see me happy, and he is a voyeur. The other boyfriend wouldn't like it so much, so not likely to happen.

"And if you are ever in the same situation where you are with another man and your husband/bf is watching - how does it make you feel that he enjoys watching you make love to another man? What goes through your mind?"

I'm not sure I would have big feelings about it, except being glad that I could give him something he enjoys. I have done roleplays for folks because it would get them off, even if I have no particular excitement about it.

"Am I nuts...? "
Could be. We don't know. But not because you enjoy watching your wife have sex with another man.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein

Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)
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