I am not a plaything. How to be nice?
I am in a LDR with a guy several hundred miles away. We are really in love. However; his partner looks at me as a plaything that is fun to be around but that is eventually going to go home. She cannot understand why we need our privacy when we are together. She was hoping we would be a threesome but I am don't feel that way for her. Now we are starting to talk about him coming to see me more instead and it has just raised a huge stink. I really don't want to hurt her feelings (she is really a nice person, just insecure). Any advice on how to communicate to her that my partner and I have a committed relationship, that I'm not a toy?