Well, I'll certainly be wishing you luck from this corner of the States. Coming out is never easy. Sorry to hear about your father disowning you.
Other than some bumps and scrapes along the way (which happens in just about any relationship), it sounds like you have quite an ideal triad life now. I can see why you decided to have a commitment ceremony.
Best wishes to you,
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"