Dreamy - that makes so much sense, especially when you mention our pre-programmimg from mono teachings. I often wonder "would some. Currently I am happy w of our set back a even happen if we grew up surrounded by poly?" I honestly think not. Of course, it wouldn't be perfect, no relationship is, but lots of the insecurities/jealousy wouldn't be....that's what I believe. If the right boundaries and respect was in place.
It would be nice to see more posts on how awesome things are too though.....but many people find the need to post for advice and insight....including me. I am so afraid at times, probably because of the way I was raised that we are making a mistake, but there is this other part of me, a strong voice that I cannot ignore, something in me that is rooting for poly. If things stay the way they are we will be just fine.
Last edited by Mahogany; 06-20-2012 at 04:40 AM.