Funeral10- yes, I know what you mean by finding a way to be OK with it all cause that's where I am. It must be great once we get there....so many practice this life style and swear by it.....how can they all be wrong? Well I guess if your mono then they are, right? That's why time is so important to give it time to let things settle, if time has lapsed and things still aren't right then you know.
Adam - I admire your views, I am definitely not there myself, not sure I will ever be.....my jealous, insecurities stem from the little things not the sex.