Originally Posted by FigNewtonian
This makes zero difference to a mono person. I know in the poly dynamic its about freedom and equality and all sides free to share their love as they will, but to a mono person in a poly situation it's really a quite pointless variable.
If they wanted to pursue other romantic interests despite being involved in one romantic relationship they wouldn't be mono, they'd be poly and the whole point would be rather moot.
But then, I imagine pursuing a relationship with someone who's already married would also be moot, unless you had some flexibility about what you're looking for.