Welcome to our forum.
CielDuMatin has the right idea, try that local poly group and see if they're at all active. Also this site has a "Dating & Friendships" board (you can use the "Forum Jump" menu, bottom of this page, right hand side, to get to it), posting and lurking there might aid in your search.
In the meanwhile, keep that research up, it will serve you well when the time comes!
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"