Originally Posted by Jade
Are you not free to pursue other romantic interests yourself?
This makes zero difference to a mono person. I know in the poly dynamic its about freedom and equality and all sides free to share their love as they will, but to a mono person in a poly situation it's really a quite pointless variable.
If they wanted to pursue other romantic interests despite being involved in one romantic relationship they wouldn't be mono, they'd be poly and the whole point would be rather moot.