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Old 06-18-2012, 05:45 AM
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You're perfectly normal, let's start there. I think it's awesome that you're mostly fine, slightly nervous, and a tad turned on.

I don't think of them as primary/other-than-primary, but the first time I went to see FBF, when CBF knew I was leaving town to go do so, I was pretty freaked out. But 5+ years of waiting and NRE were good drivers... I stayed in touch with email (CBF could not have cared less...he was at home entertaining himself). Driving home, I was positively high. I was the luckiest girl in the world.

There's a thread in here somewhere, by KyleKat (I think that's his nick), where he talks very eloquently about his feelings during his wife's first venturing out. I recommend that to you (sorry, I'm not so great with the researching and the linking).
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Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)
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